4 set-up questions you're too embarrassed to ask
PGA Professional Barney Puttick answers the beginner questions we’ve all wondered—but were too afraid to ask.
Starting out in golf can feel overwhelming. What seems second nature to seasoned players can be a mystery to those new to the game. But not to worry—every golfer has been there. PGA Professional Barney Puttick offers some sound advice on four common queries.
How high should I tee it up?
If you’re just starting out, castle tees are a great option. They give you consistent height and take the guesswork out of teeing up.
- Pink castle tees: Perfect for drivers—half the ball should sit above the top edge of the club.
- Orange: Slightly higher for personal preference.
- Blue: Great for fairway woods.
- Red: Best for irons.
A lot of good players will tee up their irons and hybrids too high. These are designed to be hit off the turf but a lot of players will peg it up too high.
Where can I tee the ball?
You can tee it up anywhere within the teeing area—a two-club-length deep rectangle between the tee markers. Most players stand in the middle by default, but that’s not always ideal.
Often there will be a better spot further back on the tee and away from where it might have seen a lot of traffic.
Tip: If there’s trouble (like water) on one side, tee up on that same side. For example, if there’s water right, tee off from the right side of the tee box to naturally aim away from it. It’s a small change that can make a big mental difference.
How do I hold the club properly?
Start by letting your hands hang naturally. The grip should run from just below the little finger to the base of the forefinger.
A great trick: Hold the club out in front of you, parallel to the ground. It should feel balanced and natural. A lot of players will let their hands creep too far under. Many beginners benefit from a baseball grip (all 10 fingers on the club), as it’s easier to control when starting out.
“Once you understand the relationship between your hands and the clubface, you’re on the right path,” Puttick said.
Think of how you'd hold a table tennis bat—neutral and balanced. That’s the feel you’re aiming for.
How far should I stand from the ball?
Here’s a simple guide:
- With irons: The butt of the club should be about one hand span from your leg.
- With woods: Around two hand spans—a little more space.
Pro tip: Set the club down first, then build your stance around it. Many beginners set their feet first and then reach for the ball, which throws off posture and balance.
Barney Puttick
Barney turned professional in 1979 and worked under Ian Connelly who was best known as Sir Nick Faldo's original coach. He was once tied for third with Greg Norman in a 36-hole tournament in Cannes, behind Corey Pavin. He is based at Mid Herts GC since 2000 and he is a Golf Monthly Top 50 coach.
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